You will understand more about my life from reading my books than what most people know with whom I interact with on a daily basis. Although I do live a dual life when it comes to colleagues, co-workers, and friends, I am an open book to the right people.
I hail from Detroit, Michigan, where the climate of acceptability in the 80s and 90s was less than stellar for crossdressers and other transgender folks. More than twenty years ago, I moved to Manhattan Island for work-related reasons. I discovered a world (or a couple of boroughs) where alternative lifestyles were much more socially acceptable. Eventually, I moved out to Long Island where I lived, worked, loved and explored my gender duality. Now, I have changed geography, again, to the Upstate of South Carolina in the hopes of a more stable future.
I hope the chronicling of my journey is of value to those in the search of better understanding of themselves as they seek out the knowledge to foster acceptance in a world where the crossdressing lifestyle may be found as foreign, misconstrued, and scary to certain people’s sensibilities.
“Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” delves into what a crossdress can be, tells stories of real crossdressing men and their partners, and hopes to provide a way for a crossdresser to find balance in life. “Living With Crossdressing: Discovering Your True Identity” goes beyond the first book to look deeper under the hood of what makes a crossdressing male (or any person) tick. From biology to identity, from expression to pronouns, from sexual to romantic attraction, we are all comprised of unique and mutually exclusive parts that make us whole.
Live well, love well, and be the most beautiful creature you can be.
